The weird and the wonderful

Things are always better after a good argument..

2008-02-18T19:39:11+01:00

Don't you agree?

Things have been tense with me and my boyfriend for a few weeks now... it's hard when you haven't been living with someone for long. You have to learn to find a happy medium for things. Anyway after a blazing row and me threatening to leave (trust me he was very unreasonable!!) the air has cleared and things are a lot better. I do think occasionally you do have to have a good rant. Obviously the quicker it is resolved the better but i'm always left feeling like things have been sorted and that now i'm being understood.

I think it's healthy!

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Things that annoy me

2008-02-18T19:21:52+01:00

Things that annoy me and probably a lot of other people -

No having enough money to go out with my friends and live the life of a 20 yr old like i should be, i feel too old for my age.

Young girls with make-up and very short skirts.. where are the parents?! Its just wrong.

Religion - Not religion in general but the fact that its down to each individual as to what they believe in, and yet there are so many problems / wars caused by religion. It is a belief and meant to be a harmonious thing.... not something to tear the world apart.

People that abuse the world - Don't get me wrong i'm no keen carbon footprint manic or anything but just a little thought everyday will make it a lot better place. Littering for one, e too lazy to recycle the odd glass bottle. They provide the tubs for heavens sake!!!

One minute treated like a child. The next an adult when it suits other people. Thats the worst thing of being at this age.

People all need to chill out and get on with each other. We should be cherishing life and the journeys we take and the people we meet. We are all here to learn.

Ok rant over....

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Opinions please!

2008-02-18T18:40:31+01:00

So....

It's Christmas day (just gone) so me and my boyfriend invite family over for dinner.

My dad, as my parents are divorced, and his mum and step dad who had recently split amicably but are still friends.

So we all have a laugh and a drink and play on the Wii. A couple of weeks later at work i get one of my usual funny emails. So i email it to my dad and my boyfriends mum. They get each others email addresses and strike up a conversation.

Next thing i find out is that they have been emailing quite a lot and have been on a few dates!!!!

I was sooo shocked. At first i was happy for them as hey both deserve someone nice. Then for some reason i wasn't ok with it. I wouldn't tell them that because i didn't want to ruin anything that i might be ok with in a few weeks.

I can't really explain why i was upset / angry. I know my boyfriends mum very well. I'm ok with it now (i think) although i'm worried i'll get angry again if anything happens...

Very weird situation....

Any comments are welcome!!

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The confusing life of a 20 year old

2008-02-16T23:38:57+01:00

I've never written one of these blog things but as i came across this site and saw other people's i decided to have a go. I've never really been sucessful in keeping a diary - the furthest being March but i intent to make a good go of this. Partly because i'd like thoughts from people i don't know, who do not know the people i know and so are not biased.

So quick introduction -

I'm a 20 year old female with a not so usual childhood but that's a different story. I live with my boyfriend and we have not long bought our first house. We have been together for 3 years now. He is 6 years older so sometimes i do see myself as a lot older than i am, and act older than most of my friends.

Today i helped my younger sister move house with her friends. Her first time leaving home. It's strange us both having grown up and moved out - time has gone so quick.

My main interests are music, and the paranormal. Not most common for people my age i know but i have always been drawn into that sort of thing. Actually this Tuesday coming i start in a 'circle'. Mainly this is for development purposes and people who want to develope their psychic abilities - or for the established psychics and mediums as a sort of social group. So we will see how that goes. I am also very interested in mediumship and red up a lot on the subject. This was partly triggered by a friend passing at the age of 23 6 months ago. His passing was very sudden and unexpected, he was my best friend. It wasn't totally trigered by this though, i have always had an interest. Occasionally having readings etc.. you do have to be careful though as there are a lot of fakes out there only in it for the money. If anyone is interested in trying a reading i know of a brilliant medium. This isn't for any benifit of mine i'd just like to spread awareness where possible. My dad was a major sceptic until he had a reading with this medium. Anyway enough about that!

I work in Administration and doing a bit of HR. My job is sometimes quite stressful and sometimes wished i had the security blanket of living at home so i could swap and change jobs as i wish - now is not so easy with a mortgage. I can't seem to match the salary i'm on. Something will come up eventually i hope!!

Oh by the way, when i said music, i mean rock music. Classic and new, mellow and metal, you name it.

Well i am going to post some more tomorrow - i have a lot to say but i'm just too tired at the moment! Please all add me as a friend and keep up with my blog.

Thanks

Dreamer

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